Thanksgiving is my holiday and our biggest annual family get together. I'll have around 22 people in my house as usual this year and I love it. This year my 95 y/o mom went into memory care. I'm the youngest, the only daughter, live close, watch over and visit regularly. She's really looking forward to the day. She has dementia, is legally blind, uses a walker because she falls all of the time. I'm going over to groom her ( she now will only wear the same jeans, the same 2 sweaters, won't let anyone wash her hair unless its a "hair stylist" and wears depends) prior and bringing her to my house. My daughter has committed to keeping an eye on her and accompanying her to her frequent bathroom visits. My brother is taking her back to her place afterwards. I cook the turkey, dressing, mashed potatoes and gravy and everyone else brings the rest of the fixings. Any advice from a seasoned family member on dementia moms at family gatherings? This was never an issue before her steady decline this year.