My father has Alzheimer's and it's become non-manageable for our family. My mother is his caregiver and I am an only child and help support the situation. I have reserved a room at a local ALF and it appears that Tuesday will be the move-in day. My mom has never seen the ALF, states she will in no way be helping me, and that she wishes to never again see him once he is gone. Keep in mind that she is 100% behind moving him out of the house (she wants him gone, gone). I am doing this on my own. He will resist when we enter the parking lot. OMG how am I supposed to do this?????????? Any advice from anyone who has done this is much appreciated. It has to be done, we are at the breaking point, and this is a very nice facility where he will have a private room.