My mom has always not treated me well in comparison to my brothers. As I got older, I had 3 girls and decided I didn't want to carry on her tradition, so I have broke the mold. She favored my 3 brothers and it was brazen. Over the years, I learned to distance myself from her. However, when my Dad passed away, I found myself doing more for her in regards to insurance, finances, etc. Then she got dementia and could not live on her own anymore. She has been in our home for over 2 years now. I've had to have her put on anti anxiety meds the first 2 years because the arguing was just not something I wanted to deal with on a daily basis. That helped somewhat. Now she is progressing and is back to being a nasty nasty snake. I don't think the devil has ANYTHING on her. I just found it interesting that so many people on here (based on other posts) have the same situation with a parent with NPD and dementia. I have RA and just don't have the energy or patience to deal with her drama on the daily. We are waiting for her Dr to refer her to a facility that does a 2 week evaluation to determine what meds will help her outbursts, pacing, agitation, general nasty behavior. Anyone had any experience with this?