My mother is 83 and in somewhat good health. She's had a narcisstic personality my whole life but at her age it seems to be getting worse. She has turned my siblings against each other so now I am the only one careing for her. She lives in her own apt. but it's up to me to take her where ever she wants to go, store, drs. appt., etc. She is on a very limited income, all she wants to do is spend and spend, a VERY touchy isssue to discuss with her about to say the least. How can I keep her on a budget? She thinks if she runs out of money one of her children will take her in, so untrue. I an in charge of her checking account but that doesn't mean anything. When I do try to discuss this with her she becomes very angry and yells and hangs up the phone on me. She could easily live another 10 years, I don't want her to run out of funds. Can someone give me and suggestions?