My wife is 65, I am 66. Since she had a heart attack about 6 years ago, she has had trouble realizing that we are at home. This has gotten worse recently and she will say, “I want to get out of here, take me home.” I will tell her that we are at home (our huose since 1985). She will say, “You know what I mean.” I will ask her where she thinks we live and she will say “If you don’t know I’m not going to tell you.” If I try to point out to her that all our mail comes here and that all our bills are paid here but it makes no difference. She will demand to be taken to our “home” and I don’t know what to say or how to handle it. She seems so intelligent in other ways and is up to date on the news but this one thing (along with needing questions like when our son gets home from work answered repeatedly) causes endless problems. She has had diabetes since she was 12 and hates doctors which makes it hard to suggest or get her any kind of diagnosis or treatment. If I tell her to speak to one of her sons, her brothers or her elderly (93) but still on the ball mother about where we live she will say that everyone is ganging up on her or will suggest that I have poisoned them against her. I need a strategy to handle this as it seems to be getting worse.