My Mom has dementia and we recently moved her into an Assisted Living facility. My Sister lives in the same town as my Mother. She, my Sister, is now demanding I visit her, from out-of-state (2 1/2 hours each way), twice a month. Ideally I would love to oblige. However, I have three kids, all who play various sports and two dogs. I am married and my Husband is happy to help when he can. I am afraid to commit/promise to coming twice a month when it may not always be possible. I know this is going to make her EXPLODE! She is a very strong/narcissist personality. Its her way or the highway. We have had a very tumultuous relationship with years of estrangement. I would like to avoid a fight but am feeling it may be unavoidable when I inevitably disappoint her.