My sister is constantly at Dad's care facility. She feels the need to micro-manage every step of his care. Being there every day, she has made him completely dependent on her. Even though she has a big heart, she can be argumentative, mean and intimidating to staff and other family members when she doesn't get the response she wants to hear. As POA, I have been told that she is impeding staffs ability to do their jobs and they are finding it hard to get staff willing to work when they know she will be visiting, which is pretty much every night. She refuses to believe that she is doing anything wrong when approached about it. The rest of the family is happy with his facility and care he is receiving there.
Help! Where do I go from here??? Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks.