When suggesting the idea she flatly refused wanting to go and said we can bring hers back to her. She lives with my sister. Being retired I'm her caregiver during the day & sister takes charge after working hours. Mother is not where she wants to be, can't live alone, can't cook, can't remember to take meds, doesn't remember days or date of the week. She refuses having lunch or dinner with us so have to take it to her twice a day. We though this would be nice in going out for the holiday and eating together what do we do? Continue to give in or insist this is something she is going to do with us. She cannot be left alone for fear she'll try to leave on her own,yet we feel like prisors in our own homes.