It is a crime that she can not get it; her attorney was a deadbeat. She is a widow who lost her job 4 years ago. I have been supporting her emotionally and financially since her husband died 11 years ago. I am the only person to support her. She has a terrible temper and is on a lot of medication for pain and chronic illness. Her verbal abuse has me at the point she has to get out of my house, I can't take it anymore. She refuses to help herself and find out what social services are available for her while she waits for disability - IF she ever gets it. I know she has options, but she says she makes calls to the Office of Aging and she says they can't help her. I know help is out there. What is best agency to help her understand income available, Medicaid continuation, etc? She is paralyzed with fear and depression, and I am at my wits end. She refuses to let me be her POA, and she trusts no one.