My husband and I are caring for my mother in law. She has early onset dementia. Her condition, and her, was neglected until just recently. Her dementia has progressed to severe. She has a hard time understanding anything these days. She can't read, write or speak intelligibly most of the time. She gets "weird" in public; disoriented, confused, scared, frustrated, pouty, etc. Her daughter is having a baby on Monday, and wants us to bring her mom for the birth. I'm not sure that's a good idea, but don't want to say no either. It feels like there is no right choice. Any advice?