She is morbidly obese and no longer does anything to keep her strength up. In other words she is lazy. She has let the dogs take over her house without cleaning up after them. She has to have help getting in and out of our Dodge Caravan. She won't try to take a shower by herself even though she has a safety bench that is larger enough and has something to hold on to to get up and down. She fell this morning around 1:30 and couldn't get up because she has not upper or lower body strength to support herself. When she tried to call us our phones didn't ring. One was in another room and mine had the ringer off by accident. She wouldn't call 911. My poor husband is beside himself with hurt, guilt, and anger at her lack of care about herself. I don't know what to do either. Thank you in advance for any advice.