Both refuse to participate in any way and live within 30 minutes. But continue to wage psychologically damaging speech via text email and phone providing mere excuses as to why they cannot ... fill in the blank. Both parents are of sound mind and clearly are hurt.
I live 2 hours away and have rearranged my responsibilities to pick up the needed slack to provide basic safety and security for our parents.
It's painful and the two siblings really need education and probably therapy to understand the damage they are causing. Thank you