My brother now interprets his POA as being able to dictate as to when I can see and talk to my mother. He will not allow me to visit with my mother in private. He has threatened me with criminal proceedings if I visit my mother and upset her. He refuses to allow the employees of the home she lives in to let me or my sons visit with her without his knowledge. She cannot call me and I cannot visit her in private. If she were to go into the hospital, no one could tell me except my brother. My mother was my best friend for 60+ years. We talked every day. We traveled extensively together and laughed till we were out of control. My brother has taken this all away and I am dying slowly along with having the loss of my mother while she is still alive. Am I crazy?