Both have recent health issues & live w/my brother who has brain injury. My mom has been a CNA all her life, she cares for dad who has heart stints and in latter stages of liver disease. However, mom just recently diagnosed and had surgery for both breast cancer and lung cancer. She is still recovering at home. Dad is mainly in bed and not feeling well, fragile state. He's in/out of hospital more often these days. My two sisters are homeless and on drugs so they don't help out and hardly ever come to see my parents. Mom has become depressed due to everything. My brother moved in a few years back and was put on the lease in their senior community as a "caretaker" for the home/grounds. He has had a bullet in his head since he was a teenager. He was supposed to take meds the nuerologist prescribed for seratonin levels, and anti siezure and get check up's. He quit taking the meds and giving blood samples at his check up's, quite a few years back. He's on SSD and they require these periodic check ups. Last week I was ran off physically by him when I went to visit my parents and take them dinner. Me and mom were talking after dinner. She was telling me "thank you so much for this food and visiting", and how she "wished it could be like this all the time". That "she misses me". I reminded her how the invite to come stay with me is always open! We did not expect the outburst from him, but we got one. My parents are used to having him there. They feel bad that he has a bullet in his head and suffers. I have tried for sometime to convince my parents to come live with me on the other side of town. They do not want to leave their home. I can't blame them either, but I am becoming very concerned with this situation. I never thought my parents declining from age would happen so fast and under these circumstances. I love them so much! What do I do?