She lives in FL in the winter and Ct in the summer. She does not want to go back to CT this year where all of our family is. Dr has told her she either has to get daily care check in or he will turn it over to social services. She is refusing everything and thinks she is fine. My sister and I have POA attorney, which mom does not recall drafting up. In the meantime my sister is verbally abusive toward her and is starting to get physical. What can I do? Any advice would help.