My mother complains about her incoming mail. She asks me to help to sort all, which I have, filed it, then I find on a return visit, she has misplaced it. She also accuses me with evening phone calls the day of the visit that I have taken her bank statements...etc. and other paperwork. The good thing is, I was proactive a few years ago and set up automatic payments from her checking account and her bills therefore, are up to date. How can I continue to help her, without being accused of taking her mail and personal documents?