She still lives in her own home and needs daily help - meals, laundry, everything. She craves attention and demands that everything revolve around her and her needs. She has no regard for what any of my brothers and sisters have to do to make that happen. I’m the only one of my siblings that lives in another city from her, but she is continuously asking me to drive over at night and stay with her - no matter what obligations I may already have - and then throws a tantrum and tells me how I don’t care about her when I refuse. She expects me there every weekend to do whatever she decides she wants done. I would never mind helping her do anything or even spending more time with her if there was one ounce of gratitude instead of unreasonable expectation. She treats all like we're servants to her and I dread even having a conversation with her. Every week she has an “emergency” doctor visit, and there is nothing wrong with her - except age. She fakes chest pain and a half a dozen other serious illnesses that she thinks will bring us all running to her side (which happens quite often). Somebody tell me how to respond to her, please! I love her, but her tantrums and crying wolf are out of control.