My 60 year old mother has been willfully unemployed for the last 10 years and has been in/out of the hospital and rehab for RX drug and alcohol abuse along with various other health issues due to poor self care. She refuses to allow anyone to see her medical information and for some reason the doctors have not committed her. All of this going on and she takes $2,000 a month from my 87 year old grandmother who is defenseless to say no. I feel like my mother is using her and this is elderly abuse. What can I do legally to stop this from happening and get my grandmother some type of protection emotionally and financially? My mother has partial ownership of my grandmother's home and is currently executor of the Will. I have POA.