Some back ground, my mom has a living trust, lives with my sister who is her POA. My nephew is her executor. Her home was sold recently. She also receives SS. We need to pay for AL or in home care. She refuses to pay for any of it. She thinks the money from the home sale is for her to do as she pleases with. My sister desperately needs help as my mother is bedridden and can’t do anything for herself and my sister works full time. She was in major debt when the house was sold. My nephew has paid off all her bills with his own money. The money from the house and her SS are all the monies there are to care for her. Can anyone out there give us some advice? We have thought about getting a court order but not sure if that would work since she has all her wits about her.