I'm 37 and am engaged to a wonderful guy. His mother was living rent free with a friend of hers until she broke the rules and because I didn't want to see her on the streets, now she's here in our apartment.
Jump back just a minute and let me tell you I had been raising a step-daughter for 9 years who ran away to live with her sister..... Anywho his mother is starting to remind me of my stepdaughter which is making it worse. She's rude, a slob, claims the living room as hers allllllllll day long, doesn't clean up after herself and doesn't help with anything but groceries when she gets her stamps, but wants cigarettes and beer. I'm to my wits end!! This Christmas has SUCKED!!!! I'm so stressed out and I want her out but she has nowhere to go and on other family to help her (she's screwed them all over too).
Please help with ANY suggestions. This is hurting my relationship with my boyfriend :(