I am not at all equipped (emotionally, physically, personality...aly) to care for my mother, my 15 yr old and 11 yr old, my husband, etc. I thought I could handle it but I can't; it just took me awhile to admit it. At my mom's last doctor's appointment the floodgates opened and I begged the doctor to have her placed in a facility. The doctor totally agreed and referred us to their patient care coordinator. When my 15 yr old caught wind of that possibility, she was relieved and confided how my mother being here has bothered her. We then learned it would take quite awhile, from a few months to a year or more. When I told her this, it was like she'd been punched in the gut. As for me, I've grown rather apathetic toward my mother and that worries me more than anything else. This will sound awful but understand that I ask it just as much in the interest of my mother as in the interest of my own family and household. If I make it known that I want to evict (for lack of a better term, if there is one) my mother, can she be admitted sooner?