As an only unmarried caregiver for my mother, I am frustrated because she wants to live with me, this I also want but private guardian says no. Mom is in a memory care facility that most residents are in a different level, I've moved to an assisted living facility to be with her, yet the court appointed guardian says no! Because it will confuse her. Yet me and mom talk every hour of every day and she only wants to be with me. Don't know how to fight to get her with me.