She has a 2 story 3800 sq ft home. Lives alone. It takes her 27 minutes up or down the stairs. Fallen twice in the home. Each time the Fire department has had to rescue her. Adult protective Svs. has contacted me. My Mother refuses to sell or move. Will not listen to reason. I live 200+ miles away. She continually opens my mail. Fed. offence. Should I use it as a leverage against her? My sons and I want her to move closer to us and continue living on her own. Refuses to give a POA. Suspect early Alz. Family history. Extremely stubborn. What should I do?
I need suggestions, PLEASE.