She says if I put her somewhere she will just walk out. I understand you need a special poa to put her somewhere she does not want to be. She has to be declared incompetent or she has the right to leave. I have POA financial, durable health care and living will. What more do I need???
A memory care will do some testing to evaluate whether she's a candidate for their facility. If she goes in, trust me, she won't walk out, because MCs are locked for precisely that reason.