Time I worked as RN she helped with daughters care during those hours now she is still active butto me she is very mess down grading (I had a problem with prescription pills that had long sense past) however I still am a drug addict and she reminds me of that daily I care for my daughter and what ever she ask for at home I love my mom but can’t take this her constant down grading while my sister is perfect how do I cope I need help she will not accept help she thinks she is well and fine
Not sure what to say. Its Moms house, Moms rules. All I can say is you need to move out.
We need a lot more information from you.
First I will just tell you that your post to us here is lacking in punctuation, spelling and wording coherence. This makes me concerned we are missing information. You are an RN so I know that in normal circumstances you would be able to write us a more coherent note.
I have some questions for you.
Are you working?
Do you live with your mother and for how many years if you do?
Does your mother own her own home?
How old is your daughter?
What exactly is your daughter's disability?
Did you maintain your license or did you lose it due to addiction?
Are you currently using. If not, how long have you been clean?
Are you POA?
Do you and Mom have a contract for shared living expenses?
Does your sister have POA?
Are you on disability or currently working?
I would say in a family with tortured family dynamics that the best place for you to be is on your own in your own home or apartment with your own daughter and with your own job. I would suggest it is best that you have nothing to do with sister, and if Mom is currently well and able that you not visit your mother while your sister is present.
Short of knowing a lot of details here I can only wish you the very best of luck.
Does your mom have dementia, or other health issues?
More information about your mom would be helpful.
Do you have anyplace else to go, what are your plans for the future