Hi Everyone, of course she wants to home, I am her only daughter, I'm the POA, she doesn't have dementia she has MS, she is only 75, she has a beautiful house in Montana, she has used all the caregivers that is in the area, fired them all.
In December 2017 she fell and was placed in rehab for two months, by the end of February I had her transferred to Seattle as so I could keep an eye on things, I've had her in assisted living for a month, she needs way more care for an AL, so now I moved her to an AFH, I looked at at least 10 of them but feel I've found a good one, long story short, she's going to hate every place she goes, complains all the time, I'm losing my marbles, she has a boyfriend at home, who is my age, he's offered to care for her, but he's only wants her money in my opinion,
today I had her transfer money into her account as the bills are many, they are her bills, she's lucky to have funds, but that won't last at this "medical rate", she and her "boyfriend" have been texting talking about her coming home, she needs to sell her house, today she said I'm not selling the house, wants to go home and be done with all this. She can not walk, she's incontinent, can't change herself, can't dress herself, can't cook for herself, but then the so called bf wants her home. This is not what's best for her, but what can I do? Get her a hospital bed, a hover lift, rebuild her massive bathroom into a walk in shower, get her a rolling shower chair, and tell her bf here have at it? The doctors in MT suck, but finding out they suck here as well, this is so frustrating, any suggestions?