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She has Alzheimer's and is 87. I have DPOA. I moved it from checking and to savings. I am worried she will just spend it away at the Dollar store. I pay her bills and she has some money to spend how she wants, but she always goes over and dips into her savings. I don't want to hide it from her, but she will need it later down the road. She could use some house or car repairs (may not be driving too much longer). She owns her home and doesn't need in-home care but could use it.

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CD's do not pay much more than a savings account and you are bound by a particular timeframe. This would probably be the last option I would chose.

I would not bother with car repairs. As a matter of fact she probably should not be driving so...tell her that you sent the car for "repairs" and sell it.. "repairs" take a long time now with the supply chin issues.

If she will remain in the house make repairs and changes that will make it safe for her and easier to sell if and when that time comes.

If you do not wish to make repairs then open another account, one she is unaware of. You have to "hide" it from her in order to keep it safe for when it is needed.

If she does need caregivers use that account to pay for them.
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As the DPOA agent for an incompetent person, you have a fiduciary duty to use her money for her benefit only and if you invest it, you must choose a prudent but productive investment. For example, sprucing up her house to better sell it after she dies is probably not beneficial to her directly. Fixing the house so that she can stay in it safely is directly beneficial. If you suspect she may be headed toward needing Medicaid long-term care within the next five years (it doesn't sound like it) consult a Medicaid attorney because an inheritance can complicate her pay down and therefore her eligibility.
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Buy a pre-paid burial and funeral.
That is an exempt asset that won't get her in trouble if she needs Medicaid.

Keep the home repairs up, as her house is another exempt asset, but you may need to sell it (in good shape) to get her the care she needs later on. Also, install some safety equipment and a wheelchair-in type of shower, all good investments for her care. A bathroom remodel might take the whole check.

Keep the car repaired, and think of fixing it up to sell. Driving is a competency/safety thing, not an age thing, but 87 is getting up there?
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Buy her some Tesla stock or put it in a tax-free income account. She'll make a lot more than a CD.

I'd never invest in CDs anymore. They lock up your money and don't pay anything anyway.
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Rosetree, you wrote: "I don't want to hide it from her, but she will need it later down the road."

Yes, DO hide the money from her.

My brother did just that with my mom's money, and that was how we had money to pay for her funeral.
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A CD, if you need it before maturity, comes with a penalty, which you already know.

Some credit unions offer a real short CD where you are less strapped in: You can choose terms from one month to eleven months. If you go month-by-month, you can easily pull out for something unexpected. But if she has a decent amount of savings, you could go longer. Or just put a % of the 10k in short one.

I would talk over legalities and options with her financial institution, or another, to see what options you have.

I am not familiar with elder laws, legalities on how to handle their money, etc., but with POA, can you open a new account to keep the money available, but just not tell her? Or, b/c that comes off as deceitful, maybe run it by an attorney? Some do quick consults over the phone, especially if it sounds like you might need a lawyer down the line.
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You as POA are the one to decide this. It will earn very little interest right now in a CD but will be very safe. If uncertain put it in a short term CD. If home repairs are needed this is a potentially very important asset for your Mom. Dependent on the needed repairs it is very important to have them done to protect your asset. Leaky roofing or pipes can't be allowed, for instance to persist.
Good luck in planning how to protect this amount of money. If Mom is 87 and seems relatively happy with current spending at her dollar store, then get this tucked away safe.
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