Her dementia has gotten worse and I am ready to put sign a contract for an assisted living that has memory care as well. it is expensive and she can only afford it for two years. She is 90. I am terrified of her money running out and her having to leave this nice facility and go to a medicaid nursing home. what if she is still aware of what is going on? How could do that to her? I have put off this decision but now she is truly not safe in her apartment with the level of care we had been giving her. Help!