My mom is now pregnant. I don't know when it happened but it's clearly visible from her belly that she is. Everytime I mention the thing, she starts making jokes and then change topic. I'm scared because in my opinion a pregnancy at her age (40+) it's too dangerous, not to mention that 'the father' has no responsibility for such a big change. I don't want to put pressure on her, but now there's nothing we can do to help her if she hides everything from us. I already suffered a lot in my life and this baby will deal with an as* hole father with no work (he has a daughter living in foster care), and my mom that can't afford to care.