Mom is lonely, forgets my sisters being there to visit. They have a grueling schedule and are there 7 days a week. When she is lonely, she does not want to cooperate with the aides at this facility. The turnover is horrible, so it is never the same person. Some of the aides are young with no experience, it is just a paycheck so, they have zero empathy.
Is it possible to find an older adult who would be willing to go, visit with her, encourage her to eat lunch, sit outside, play bingo or games with her?
We will be willing to pay for this service. I just do not know where to look.
Thank you.
With the level of forgetfulness here it is very unlikely that visits will help. As you can see, family visits don't do the job. I would have the MPOA speak with doctor about trying a mild anti-depressant if they feel it could help, but overall know that this is simply not the happiest time in ANYONE'S life.
You should speak to the members of staff at your facility, and perhaps even the admins to see if they have further ideas, options for you.