My sister is 51 and has been a problem for my parents since she was 14. She went to my mom's because she didn't have a place to live. My mom had a doctor write a note saying she needed around the clock care so she could stay at my mom's place. My mom doesn't remember all the underhanded things she has done in the past. Since she moved in with my mom she has stolen all her jewelry that was worth anything. My mom had to hide her purse so my sister wouldn't steal anything. Now she talked my mom into letting her handle her finances. Mind you a year or so she got my mom's debit card and spent around 200.00. My mom wouldn't do anything. That's the problem my sister would get in trouble and my mom would bail her out. She doesn't treat my mom right unless she wants something.