I am 60 yrs old, single and no children, my three siblings are all dead (life style choices unfortunately) I live with my aging mother. I am a recovering alcoholic and have been sober for almost 10 years although I no longer attend meetings. My moms health was really good until about 2 years ago, when she met a man, (my father not in picture for many years) this man was a real piece of work. Turns out nothing but lies and a real cheat ; married and living 1/2 a mile away he convinced my mother of all kinds of wonderful things, all lies. This rollercoaster ride has deteriorated her mental and physical health and she is showing signs of dementia for the first time. she sleeps all day and just doesn't care about anything. I want to sue him for taking her away from me. She says she just wants to die. She wont see a doctor and does not have a physician although she does get antidepressants from a Dr that took over the practice of her last Dr. I don't know what to do she has episodes of anger and blames everything that's wrong on me. We are both very isolated and I am getting frustrated with this situation. until about a year ago she could do everything for herself but now she has memory loss, she can't figure out the TV remote, she can't cook or herself she doesn't want to take showers (she feels violated) this last trauma I think is causing a double depression and she just won't cooperate with me and see a physician, psychologist, or a counselor, she hasn't really any friends and doesn't seem to want any.