My mom has told lies about me and has hacked my phone. I can't get help anywhere. Advice?

It is concerning you say you can't get help anywhere.

Do you have your phone? Have you called a Lifeline or Crises line for help?

It may be better to find local service that can help you. People you can go talk to in person.

Thandee, welcome!

It sounds like your mom is seriously mentally ill and, unlike most mothers, does not want the best for you.

Sometimes we need to cut toxic people out of our lives in order to survive and thrive.

I am seeing a pychiatrist since 2015,i was diagnosed with bipolar disoder,i have been taking the medication,i also have Hiv.Recently she has been telling people I am crazy,she has blocked from getting help from doctors,friends,and churches.she went to everyone and told lies about me.she even told people I am jealous of her boyfrien,she told people i want her boyfriend,I live with her,i stopped drinking last month because i found out she also wanted to take my kids,I joined AA,and a support group for depression, she told them something now nobody wants to help me,she has hacked my phone and she knows what Im about to do before I do it.She has also talked to all doctors,so I cant get help.I didnt see that she was planning all this all along coz I was busy drinking.She has told people I take drugs and that I steal,she has teamed up with people that dont like me.I dont have money to go and rent because I am still paying debts that I made while drinking.She doesnt get along with her mother so I dont know if thats the problem.She makes fun of me everytime of my looks and she says nobody will ever love me.She laughs at me that I have debts,these are things my granny used to say to her so I think she is taking it out on me.she also tried to kill herself 3 times because of her fight with her boyfriend.i tried taking her to my pychiatrist one day and she said my doctor is crazy.she sees everyone as wrong and she is always right.I dont want to be like her,she is very sick but too stubborn to see.Lately I have been feeling sorry for her.the thing i cant take is her telling lies about me everyday.my neighbours look at me like Im a demon and thats what shes told them.I have also started praying and reading the bible anyomore but she still tries to destract me.What kind of mother does these things?

Oh gosh, I am so sorry. Do you still live with her? Have you ever sought help from a therapist? I feel that you need to get professional help to work through these issues. You have been through an awful lot of heartache. Do you have NAMI in your area? Please seek help. Go online to search for mental health in your area. What do you mean by blocking you? Please explain. Are you still drinking? Contact AA if you desire help with your drinking. Focus on your future. You don’t need your mother’s approval. Get help for yourself.

I hope you will find suitable resolutions to your situation with your mom. Wishing you peace during this difficult time in your life.

I had my firsrt child in 2014 and we started fighting alot after that.She would ask me why I got pregnant,I thought she didnt like the father because he wasnt working but she hasnt liked any of my relationship even with friendships,she always tried to end them and I didnt see at the time that she had a problem with me.now I was drinking and telling everyone that she made me have an abortion and how she raised me so she got mad and she is trying to ruin my life.everyone is on her side.I even put the things on social media.I was angry but now I see i made the wrong choice and now I dont know what to do because she has blocked me from getting help from anyone

I was raped by my uncle when I was a child but never told anyone,I grew up without my father,i was told they seperated with my mom and he died mentally ill but he wasnt born like that,he was crazy after they seperated with my mom,he died when I was in grade 5 i was told after a year.my mom slept with different men while we were staying in a one room house,in matric I got pregnant and she took me to hospital without asking me whether I want to keep the baby or not.We never spoke about it.In 2004 I started working and she still continued to sleep with me in front of me,then I started drinking heavily.

I don’t quite understand your posting. Can you share a bit more information? Do you and your mom live together? Does she suffer with mental illness?