My mother lives in an independent living apartment. She has all kinds of activities and three meals a day provided and a lot of people to visit with. But does none of it. She has every excuse why she can’t do anything.. and makes me feel guilty about everything in her life. I love my mom, put sometimes I think life would be so much easier if she was gone☹️
that sounds terrible and I feel bad for thinking that! I have a brother that shows up maybe once a month?? And a sister that tries but my mom has issues with her (goes way back).
I see that my mom is starting to lose it mentally, but a lot of it is for attention and not true and that makes me upsets and makes me angry. I am not sure what my options are? Maybe I just need to vent.