My Mom does not understand bathroom hygiene anymore which has made her prone to infections. It is hard to tell with her when she does have an infection and with her hygiene so poor she might as well take antiobiotics indefinitely which I know we cannot do. She wears 2 pads but probably should be wearing something like Depends. Her dementia is pretty advanced. I need something to deal with this situation and just have no ideas but one. I am wondering what everyone might think regarding a bidet for her. It is lighted, the water is warm and it has a dryer. I have never used one nor actually have I seen one except for a picture. Do you think it would confuse her even more? Do you think it would scare her? Have any of you ever had one for your elderly parent with dementia? Thanks in advance for any help!