My mom is homebound and her quality of life isn't as good as it should be, but I'm doing literally everything in my power to help her. She has always been a heavy drinker, and refuses to get help. South Dakota facilities won't help you unless you're a voluntary admit. Tonight my mom called me bawling because her home health nurse wouldn't go to the store because her shift was up. I know my mom won't remember it tomorrow, but it's so distressing to listen to. And infuriating she'd get so upset over something so small. I know it's the drinking, but nothing I can do about that. I'm applying for extra aid with the state so that her Medicaid will pay for full time home health because I know that will curb the drinking somewhat, and I have an excellent case going for it, but it takes time. I just want to feel not so alone in this.