She tells us "I have no daughters, they abandoned me." "Take me home" When we say she cannot go home for her own safety, she turns mean and throw us out. Nursing home recommends not to visit as often. It upsets all of us, Mom included. What to do? I was thinking 1 day a week for each of us. She is good to staff and other patients. If we come and she is in the common room, she is pleasant to them. When we enter, she starts her complaining and hatefulness.