Hi, I am POA and my loved one is starving in a nursing home. They said he is mentally competent to refuse food. He is not in his right mind because I know him. I have tried to take him to the doctor and he says no to everything. My heart is breaking since they said not until he cannot speak can they take him to the hospital. And it is now lock down so we cannot get a doctor in to evaluate him. The nursing home said since he is competent we need guardianship. Can a judge grant us guardianship because he is harmful to his own self and cannot take care of himself? Eat, bathe, loose bowels. He is dying and he is a young man. Nothing is wrong with him except he went in for diverticulosis. What can I do?