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For the past year sister in law has been saying we can see our brother only on Saturday and that’s it. No weekdays. Every time I see him it’s in the hospital and when I see him he’s littler and littler every time. She says he stopped eating I say it’s because he's lonely and he wants to see his family. It’s so much to text I would like a call just for some answers if that’s possible oh! She won’t let him see my mom either who has Alzheimer's. I started calling for the police to do a well being check. 1 officer said that he looked sick the other one said stop calling them and that this seems to be a family fight so figure it out. I’m just asking for help please. Where do I stand? I just want to see my brother. I think that she’s just controlling and she keeps saying she's depressed and feeling sad at times. How can she take care of him? I’ve offered to come sit with him while she works, and nothing. I believe she’s leaving him in the house by himself and he’s missing out on breakfast and lunch and he’s only eating dinner because now he’s mad for being left in the house all day by his self looking for answers.


Immobile if a fire or something should happen he’s screwed and that’s another reason why I keep calling the police also.

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Right after he had the stroke he couldn’t talk write drink move or anything he has his brother and father and mother all who are very much alive I don’t know to much how that goes but she told us like a week later that she was poa and her dad was a witness so not sure maybe she became poa because she’s the wife and she is really using it to her advantage my husband is not in the best of his health as well it’s like his whole family just went down all in 2016 it was a terrible year for us and then my Husband tried kill him self as well his dad in and out of the hospital his other brother had open heart surgery so he’s like the only person standing and he’s hurt about all of this I just wonder how can a person be so heartless and keep him from the only he’s ever known
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There could be a medical reason that he is losing weight. I don't know her reasons for limiting the visits to Saturdays, but, maybe, there are some. If you really doubt that brother is receiving proper care, you could report your concerns to adult protective services so they can investigate.
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All I can say is call Adult protective services. How did she get POA? Her husband has to be able to assign her. With my Mom she went to a lawyer and signed off in front of a witness who I think was a Notary. So if she had the POA drawn up, he signed, it would need a Notary signature and seal.
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