He has recently become incontinent and won't cooperate when I take off his regular daytime underwear to put the disposable one on for nighttime. He won't lift up his feet for the pullup type and he won't stand still for the tape on ones. The tape on ones end up ripped off in the night in a heap on the floor and pee runs off the bed to the floor. The pull up ones involve a physical struggle. He is pretty strong, but he is dizzy or afraid, not sure how he can fight so. Any ideas would be much appreciated!