His mom still expects him to do everything in her house when he doesn't even take care of things in our own house... we hire outside help. She will NOT let ANYONE else in her home to help her, what should we do? The situation is getting out of hand and my husband's health is at risk. I have never gotten along with her so it is impossible for me to talk to her. Please help.
(This question is being asked by a wonderful friend that has not yet decided to join this group, I hope everyone out there can give her wonderful suggestions and bring her along to join us and she can get some support like I have;)