My sister-in-law is accusing my husband of taking advantage of his parents financially and says she has proof of financial transactions. My husband says that he has never taken anything from his parents but that they have been generous to him. I knew of this generosity and did not approve of it in the past 2 years because his parents are declining. His father may have dementia and his mother has Stage 4 COPD. Both have memory loss. My husband states that he has not taken any money from them but, because he has been caring for them during the week and on the weekends and is unable to work overtime, he has been, with their permission, making up the difference. We both work f/t but in the past have supported my grandchildren and daughter and continue to support our daughter. His sister has mental health issues and has great animosity toward her brother for her parents and deceased sister not wanting to see her. She blames my husband for all of this.
I believe that she has reported this to APS. Currently my husband's mother is on hospice and my husband has requested FMLA to be with his mother. I just want to know what we might expect and the best course of action to deal with this.