I have full responsibility of her and he RARELY helps ever. She argues each and every time she goes into the bathroom which is about 4 times a day! She tries to play with the dirty tissue instead of flushing it and sometimes tries to use it to wipe her skin. She smacks really loudly even with the most simplest of meals..and she absolutely hums from the time she wakes till she sleeps at night..if she sleeps at all. But the worst thing is she will get angry at me for stopping her from her tissue episodes and she spits on me.. My husband says she doesn't know what she's doing, but I believe she does since she only spits when I have to take the dirty tissue out of her hands. I am at my wits end and I relayed to my husband before she came that I could help from 8am to 8pm with weekends off. Well he comes in from work around 6pm, eats and goes to sleep. Every weekend he has to do something work related and on Sundays is the only time he has to golf, which by the way he deserves since he works all week and I do not! I'm exhausted physically, the humming constantly is driving me crazy, and it would be a miracle if she will use the bathroom just once without a big argument to get her in and out shorter than 15-20 minutes...any suggestions??