FIL has been verbally abusive and has accused him of thief yelling about it loudly while in the hospital. All accusations are unfounded and my husband has been killing himself trying to do things for a Dad who is totally ungrateful. Husband had a bad childhood due to this man. My MIL has passed away and the situation has only gotten worse. He has a sister who has made the situation worse . My husband plans to resign today and the hospital will have to appoint someone to be the POA. His Dad is not able to care for himself adequately, insists on heating with a pellet stove and my husband has to carry in approximately a 1,000 lbs of this stuff up steps into the home monthly ( each bag weighs 40 lbs). Also has to fill buckets with pellets to be put into the stove. Also the stove has to be cleaned out several times a week. My husband goes to the store for him and other chores. The house is falling down and is unclean. He refuses help from agencies and I had arranged for Meals on Wheels which was refused. One daughter has nothing to do with him as he abused her as a child. I don’t blame her. I am unable and unwilling to assist as he had molested my daughter years ago and stalked her.
Will my husband still be held responsible for a his Dad even if he resigns? He said that he has had enough.