I know it's a 'what if' situation, but I lay awake nights worried about what will happen to my husband if my cancer comes back, and I end up passing away before he does. I take care of him in our home, and hope to do so until..... Our son says he will not have Dad come live with him. Our daughter has a full house of kids, and has no room. We really don't have the money for him to go to a 'facility'. Any advice on how to sleep at night would be appreciated.