My hubby's parents are battling two forms of cancer. They have three grown adult children who assist where they can including financially but only one adult child lives in the same city. Unfortunately, he gave up working due to wanting to be near his parents. So, he refused every job offered due to relocating. Let me remind you he’s married with 3 young children.
Currently, they are about to lose their house and they can no longer pay their bills...etc. The other 2 brothers (1 being my hubby) are employed with a family and have tried talking to the oldest brother about not neglecting his 1st priority.
My mother in law doesn’t want to leave her home and move in with her children; My father in law doesn’t mind but he won’t go against his wife.
What bothers me is my hubby and I have been made to feel guilty by family for not taking care of my brother in law's home, his wife & children while he attends to his parents.
I’m not sure what to do.