Didn't let her go to the funeral. Said no one could go visit her for 2 weeks. But here's the kicker no one is her POA she has not been evaluated as incompetent yet. Every day 2 of the kids call and say the nursing home said grandma is having it bad so now another week no one can go visit? We went once and grandma was doing very well. The nursing asked us to leave they said per the kids request? We talked to the D.o.n. who informed us that without any POA no one can tell us that? But yet everyday still can't go visit. 2 kids say no and the nurse asks us to leave? Thinking about getting a lawyer involved as none of these kids or the home seem to have grandma's best interest at heart. I am the one who spent time with grandma before all this happened, her kids were never around. Now that grandpa is gone 2 of her kids want to step up and play the boss. Please give me some advise I'm starting to get very upset for grandma and for me.