He has signed a condo over to him at his death and maybe other things. HIS TWO WEALTHY CHILDREN and grandkids have now come in on her and secretly got Power of Attorney (not yet signed by his doctor)...put grandson in the condo. and went to bank and TOLD THEM they had POA and got into their checking account. The husband is not wanting to make his kids mad; but, they are completely destroying my friend. She has to do everything for him and has all these years. His children have never helped her with him. Are there any legal things in something like this or should she stop the ongoing verbal abuse from the kids and let them take over the husband's care? He is beginning to demand more and more care and she is willing to continue caring for him because she DOES love him. Thank you!!!!