But my mother-in-law said don't talk to him he can hardly talk. But on the other hand his father would like to see his son talk to him. (she won't allow it) It would be brief since he has too many health problems and has no kidney and doesn't want to live anymore. Then the next day he will say I want out of this nursing home. I'm afraid, thirsty and want a blanket its cold in here. We did try for months making plans to see each other but she would always cancel. He seemed interested. She is so dominate. He has hospice you would think they would allow us to talk to them to get her to allow him a facetime visit. This would be the last time my husband could ever get to see his father.