My Father is in care facility. Has been for 10 months. He is determined he's not settling, says he hates the place and is going home. Tells me staff hopeless, steals his things and forget everything he asks. Tells the staff I am useless as I won't get him out. The care facility is very good. He tells lies to try to get his own way. I have arranged to speak to him tomorrow with a staff member present to tell him legally he can't go home as certificates issued by 2 doctors confirming he does not have capacity to make decisions about his care. I have POA for him. The soft soap does not work. Any suggestions as to how to word this?